Bam!

Finally, the post about Mom and Ross' visit.

First I should like to take a tangent and discuss things that make me feel old. When I was a kid and we learned about proper possessive nouns, the rule went that for names that ended in S, you still added apostrophe-s unless that person was extremely dead in which case you just added the apostrophe. The example given was the staff of long-dead Old Testament prophet Moses was "Moses' staff". I could remember this because I had a dog named Moses. His rawhide bone was "Moses's bone." Then my brother was born. And at some point in early high-school, the visit of Ross became "Ross' visit" instead of "Ross's visit" despite the utter coolness of three S's in a row. It normally seems that language change over hundreds of years, so does that make me hundreds of years old? Why, I remember when all of the continents were joined together.

So we had an interesting visit with my mother and brother. This was my mother's second visit and my brother's first, his plane ticket being a graduation gift from my mother for finishing university despite his best efforts to the contrary. Ariel screwed up many a good plan to tour about by going on a trip to Florence (the Italian one) right in the midst of their visit, leaving me to have to always get home in time to pick the girls up from school. But we managed.

The first day we took the great trek South, which swings us past Oxford and into the land of prehistoric man. We saw Silbury Hill and the stones of Avebury and Stonehenge as well as one of the white horses that early people carved into the chalk hills of Wiltshire. These sites attract a more tofu-eating deodorant-eschewing crowd than most, and in Avebury, Ross and I overheard the cashier in a New Age shop remark to a customer that this year had been a lean year for Crop Circles. This put my brother and me into a rather irreverent mood for the rest of the trip, including our bus journey to Salisbury.

My mother turned 50 this year. She didn't take it nearly as poorly as we had hoped, but we still tried to find ways to remind her that half a century had passed since her birth. On the trip to Salisbury, she picked up a brochure about Salisbury and was reading it without her glasses. I should note here that Mom didn't start wearing glasses to combat the effects of old age, unless she's been old since she was a child. So in this case, it wasn't some sort of vanity that caused her to squint at the page, but just run-of-the-mill laziness. Anyhow, she was reading about the Cathedral when she looked up and said matter-of-factly, "In England, they call Holy Communion 'bam.'" Now I will be the first to admit that I have never attended any type of religious service here in England other than our LDS services, so everything I know is secondhand. And I will also readily admit that I am not always on top of other churches' lingo, but "bam" sounded so foreign and well, wrong to me that I had to question her sources. She pointed out on the pamphlet under the Services Schedule where she learned this and I saw:

8am (Holy Communion)

Ross and I laughed and laughed (remember, we were still punch drunk from the Crop Circles). For the rest of the trip, whenever my mother had a "Senior Moment," Ross and I would yell, "Bam!" like Emeril Lagasse.


Our next big trip was for Ross who had said he wanted to hike. I took everybody to the Peak District, and though I knew there was no way that I'd get Mom to climb Kinder Scout (the highest Peak), we could make a good effort. Plus, the trail began (and thus ended) at a pub, so I knew all would end well. This was good, because it drizzled the whole time. Ross abused sheep on the way up, and all was going pretty well until Jacob's Ladder came into sight. This was to be our destination, but when Mom saw it, she began to have second thoughts. You see, there are no peaks in the pointy sense in the Peak District, and so technically Kinder Scout is the highest point of a boggy moorland on top of a very high plateau, and to get to the top of the plateau you have to climb Jacob's Ladder. Jacob's Ladder from a distance looks like an 150 metre tall stone waterfall. It goes almost straight up from the valley floor to the plateau. It's a lot like Jack (of beanstalk fame) climbing up the giant table leg. Mom balked at this, plus, her camera batteries were all exhausted, and if Mom can't take a picture of something, there's no use going there. Ross on the other hand had spotted a large stone outcropping at the top and he was determined to conquer Jacob's Ladder (his first name is Jacob) and pee on the rock outcropping (because he is part Labrador Retriever). Mom went back and Ross and I scurried up (Ross scurried, and I panted and rest frequently). We met a man who was coming down, and when asked how was the view, he replied bitterly, "Terrible." Actually, the view was great if you don't mind being in the cloud layer. You'll notice only a very vague silhouette of Ross on the stone outcropping (marked forevermore with his scent). We made great time back to the pub, The Old Nag's Head, where Mom was sitting warm and dry. It was here that Ross had an ale called "Well-Hung Ale" with a picture of a bull which was, um, well-hung. Duh. He claimed it was also pretty tasty too.

There were also touristy things to do closer to home, and finally we went to London. Ross actually requested the Tower Bridge and maybe an art museum so we went and made fun of the art at the Tate Modern (we also saw a lot of things we each liked), took the Tower Bridge Tour (good value in London at £6 per person), and enjoyed exceptional weather.

Lena returned from her annual school trip to the Devon coast where she had a spectacular time despite being cold and wet for the whole week. While there, she lost a tooth, and the tooth fairy found her there. This was interesting as she had lost a tooth a month earlier, and it took the tooth fairy 3 days to get it together and pay her for the thing. One of Lena's friends (who was sleeping over the night that the earlier tooth fell out) had been making disparaging comments about the tooth fairy not being real and the such, which we assumed was why the tooth fairy took so long to show up, having to make certain that Anabel the Unbeliever wasn't there. But Lena (and Anabel) returned home from the trip with her testimony of the tooth fairy reaffirmed as neither Ariel nor I knew that Lena had lost a tooth and therefore could not have been sneaking money under her pillow. Livia is about to turn 7 and she has been terribly discouraged that all of her friends have been losing their teeth, but she didn't even have any that were loose. Then out of the blue, she came home with a tooth in her pocket and a hole in her mouth. I'm fairly certain that she paid one of the boys in her class to knock out the tooth. The funny part is that when I saw it, I melodramatically declared that, "You are a woman now!" and she's taken this to heart. Whenever we deny her anything, she responds that she's a grownup now that she's lost a tooth.

I think that I've finally grown discouraged with the clunkiness of this blog software and in the near future I'm going to switch to something much lighter. If I can, I will continue to host here, but if I have to send you to an account hosted on Blogger, so be it. Ciao.